There isn’t much to add to this picture…..we can not possess our spouse. We don’t own them. We have no right to control their lives. It’s a partnership, appreciation of the other person beyond the little ickies that come out as you are married.
Some days you will not want to. But you love them and will do what you need to do to be happy. Just today I lost my voice. Almost completely. Does that stop Senor from trying to make me laugh? Nope. It hurts, but brings a smile to my face. I appreciate him and he appreciates me.